Believing that even sad events can teach us something I want to share the upsetting news that hit me this week. Filled with sadness I realized that it was a kind of wake-up call. A wake-up call, not just for me, but it should be for every older person who has been told – and we hear this advice very often – be careful how much money you spend because you don’t want to outlive your money.
A scary thought for sure, but how can we be certain it is not our money that out lives us?
No, nobody knows how long we are here and what the future holds. And keeping this in mind we should be more generouss with ourselves! Don’t deprive yourself – buy that new dress – take that trip – go out for dinner with your friends – take a taxi if the bus doesn’t come – do whatever makes your daily life more enjoyable without feeling guilty. And saying this I know that most of us won’t go overboard, but we do deserve a few extra treats.
When I got the sad news, and before I could accept the reality, I was sitting again with my friend Joan on her porch during the long weekend I had spent with her just a month ago. Her laughter, her joie de vivre was infectious. She was telling me how she looked forward to her trip to Turkey in September, and had some funny stories about her skiing trip to Whistler, B.C. with her grandson. and that she was going on a hiking trip to the Adirondack next week. Kayaking was part of her like life too, boundless energy. We had a busy, physically demanding weekend with parties, time on the beach, walks and debates about life. Her life looked like it had a long way to go; she was only in her early 70s. With her unshakeable optimism she told me that now, being partly retired, she was looking forward to ticking of items on her bucket list one by one.
It was not meant to be – Joan died last week.
….and all her dreams and hopes for the future are being buried with her today.
Writing this and remembering the way she was always ready to help others I feel like she leaves us with a message which I want to pass on by telling you a little anecdote
A friend of mine asked her father on his deathbed if he had any regrets about his life and he answered: “Yes, I regret that I didn’t take more taxis!”
Don’t let the taxis in your life pass you by — instead take the ride while you can.
Joan – may the angels enjoy your laughter as much as I did.
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Sending gentle hugs and Joan would be thankful for your friendship.. It’s a reminder to make the most of today, as you say. And also to be grateful for good friends xx
Make most of today- be well and thank you for reading my blog
I hope you remember me we met at Young’s Nail Salon last week. I do hope you are well and enjoying this lovely and lucky streak of weather in New York City.
Your website is so beautiful and all of the articles and photographs are very enjoyable.
If I don’t see you before Labor Day, please enjoy the weekend and let’s keep in touch.
Camille how can I forget the pretty lady with a big black hat – thank you for contacting me
Yes, I too hope we will stay in touch and once Labor Day is passed we should be in touch again
Enjoy it wherever you are – best wishes Brigitte
So sad to hear of Joan’s passing. I’m delighted that you had some special moments with her not too long ago. I too am grateful for meeting you and establishing a friendship during our recent travel and look forward to seeing you soon.
Hello Jody I too am looking forward to meeting you again
In the meantime don’t forget to take taxis